6 things I want you to know about my bisexuality
I am a bisexual woman who feels very comfortable with who she is, but sometimes I think my friends and acquaintances do not quite understand my sexual orientation. That's why I wanted to write these 8 things I want to know about my bisexuality.
1. You do not attract me
Yes, they are handsome, intelligent and funny but when I look at them, I see my friends. I like the friendship we have.
2. Yes, I am bisexual. It is not a phase. I'm not confused
Do not even think I'm a heterosexual woman you're experiencing. I like men and women. It has always been like this. It's part of who I am.
3. Being bisexual does not mean that I like triplets or risky sex
I've never made a trio and I prefer monogamous relationships. My partner and I are normal people and we face the same challenges as the rest of the couples.
4. Discrimination comes from everywhere
There are many gays and lesbians who believe that bisexuality does not exist. Instead, they believe that bisexual women are lesbians who are afraid to leave the closet altogether.
Likewise, homophobia by the heterosexual population is inevitable. I feel that I am trapped in two worlds and that I am not welcome in any of them.
5. If I make a compliment is because I really think
Whatever he said, I probably thought about it before I said it to make sure I was not misunderstood. They may not notice it, but I try hard not to make my sexuality uncomfortable.
6. That is why my friendship with you is so important to me
My bisexuality has made me empathic with others, as they may face difficulties that are invisible to me (physical or mental health problems, financial problems, abuse ... anything).
These difficulties make them who they are, but they do not define them, just as my sexuality does not define me.
1. You do not attract me
Yes, they are handsome, intelligent and funny but when I look at them, I see my friends. I like the friendship we have.
2. Yes, I am bisexual. It is not a phase. I'm not confused
Do not even think I'm a heterosexual woman you're experiencing. I like men and women. It has always been like this. It's part of who I am.
3. Being bisexual does not mean that I like triplets or risky sex
I've never made a trio and I prefer monogamous relationships. My partner and I are normal people and we face the same challenges as the rest of the couples.
4. Discrimination comes from everywhere
There are many gays and lesbians who believe that bisexuality does not exist. Instead, they believe that bisexual women are lesbians who are afraid to leave the closet altogether.
Likewise, homophobia by the heterosexual population is inevitable. I feel that I am trapped in two worlds and that I am not welcome in any of them.
5. If I make a compliment is because I really think
Whatever he said, I probably thought about it before I said it to make sure I was not misunderstood. They may not notice it, but I try hard not to make my sexuality uncomfortable.
6. That is why my friendship with you is so important to me
My bisexuality has made me empathic with others, as they may face difficulties that are invisible to me (physical or mental health problems, financial problems, abuse ... anything).
These difficulties make them who they are, but they do not define them, just as my sexuality does not define me.
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