The story of a beautiful bisexual girl

Every Friday night, the body of the West Road and South Road, always flowers turned obscure, fragrant floating, across a few streets can smell the atmosphere of alcohol and hormones.

Young men and women in the "Song" in the Erbinsimo, and it opposite the "end", gorgeous men flirting there, turn a corner of the "leaves", it is Beijing's most prestigious pull it one. In today's increasingly tolerant, homosexuality is no longer a matter of law and morality, and it is even a pretty pretty label in the circle where Wen is.

30-year-old Wen is a well-known foreign company's public relations manager. Her weekend is often the case: before the zero, in the "Song" drink dancing dice, often accompanied by her male colleagues Allen, his relationship with her as their sexual orientation as indestructible.

Jump to high, she will tolerate Allen's passion and affection; after zero, Allen to go to the "end", she would have to transition to "red leaves", she arrived, the show has just begun, she felt He fell in love with the new girl who was hoping to dance, and her eyes seemed to be able to stare at the fire. 2 or so,

Wen returned to Sanlitun home, and then to the United States fiance call, she wanted him, their wedding scheduled for May this year, Wen intended to give him a boy and a girl.

Every Friday night is wet and chaotic - as long as she is in Beijing. Wen's secret is written in her BLOG. In high school, she and the dormitory of a girl inseparable, do not know how to start, her first kiss, the first night and her. 

And when Wen pay boyfriend, the girl is also journeying for her wrist. After many years, the first love boyfriend's face has been blurred, and she was able to clearly feel that the body of the girl's body, and has brought her orgasm, that with the hymen at the same time there is orgasm has been deposited into her The soul of the. This is the story of Wen.

Wen's troubles

High school of Wen is a typical adolescent syndrome: sexual development, love budding, embarrassed to pay boyfriend, so projected to the girls who, that girl, but a man's substitute it. 

This conclusion sounds impeccable. However, slowly - Wen said: "Why do I have a boyfriend in the case, but also to fantasize that dancing strange woman? And, I often fantasy is that his incarnation into a man and her sex ... ... "

As Ana Yisin wrote in his diary "Fire" in 1931: "No matter what love, I can not resist, my blood began to dance, my legs open." The most famous bisexual Love the woman, first in the writer Henry Miller, and then love the writer's wife Joan. 

According to her story adaptation of the film "Henry and Joan", is the heart of the "boutique". Alfred Kinsey made two large-scale investigations into sexual behavior in 10 years after Anaisinen. He asserts that the appearance and arrangement of all practice are continuous, from heterosexuality to homosexuality, and there will be a transitional stage in the middle - bisexuality.

However, until today, admit that he is bisexual is still a difficult thing. This is Wen's troubles. She can not tell everyone: I love my fiance, I intend to give him a child and a woman, and I love a woman. 

She will be despised by all, in the "Song" in the heterosexual view, she is a person who refused to accept their own homosexuality. And "end" and "leaves" in the regulars, will think she is a traitor, succumb to the traditional moral coward.

Turn left turn right

While heterosexuality prevails, homosexuality has also been recognized. This is what we think has been completed the era of sexual revolution. But the third road is still impracticable, and the community refuses to acknowledge the right of the bisexian to demand a non-selective orientation, that is, the indiscriminate or simultaneous love of men and women. 

Human sociologist, Catherine Deschamps, points out: "Our society can not give up binary logic, not heterosexuality is homosexual, there is no other in the middle."

The simple binary logic is a big step forward than the rough literary theory. But also to those who belong to the middle of the gray area of ​​people, but also consciously stand on both sides - either to the right, or to the left. 

Wen in the "Song" to heterosexuality itself, in the "leaves" Zeyi homosexuality itself, but never a bar, to make her free to paste the third label or not labeled to enter. For the people, it is the ideal way of life: "Do not consider what is unhealthy or not normal, according to my nature to love, I need this freedom.

Wen's friend Allen, the same is a vague identity. Before 2005 he thought he was a pure homosexual, until that year met a neutral temperament singer spring. He said: "Before that, I will only have sexual fantasies for men, and love with women full of fear .

This woman inspired me a very strong feeling of love. Followed by the desire for sex, And when we were making love for the first time, my movements were so natural that I was so incredible that the spring had let me get off, but I thought she was just awakening the potential duality of me.

After the spring, he no longer excludes women, and he did not give up at the gay bar. He is much easier than Wen, because he has not considered looking for a person to marry and have children.

In fact marriage is not the end of bisexuality. Alice is so. She was married and was a 4-year-old girl's mother, and at the age of 35, Alice had sex with a woman for the first time. At that time, their relationship between husband and wife basically lost passion, two people are naked, but also the heart of water. 

She found comfort at the 22-year-old lesbian. She said: "is Ann to guide me, in front of her, I seem to have gone through once again, my previous 18 years of sexual experience are no longer useful at the same time, and women have a relationship, will not bring my husband's guilt "Alice regularly and quietly, this conversation even let her re-find the desire for men's sex

Love man, love woman

Alice said, "When I admit that I am a bisexual, I will become a greedy child, and I will have this, and the joy of it is not the same or even complementary.

"It is undeniable that when we touch a body with us and a very different body, the feeling of sex is not the same.With the woman together, more is the sensual exchange, and the kind of Pleasure is endless, because we are more than any man should be familiar with our body, because men, after all, not a woman.

With a man together, I am eager to feel that can not grasp the process of sexual intercourse must take into account the man's pleasure They often do some difficult moves, because since ancient times, men have been trying to prove that they are the best.

Allen said: "With men or with women, my male characteristics and female characteristics are expressed through different ways, I can not say with men will make me more masculine, with the woman in the I will only make me more feminine, and sometimes it 's just the opposite, and I only know that both love men and love women, make me feel more complete.

What does the scientist say?

Then, everyone should be the same as Alice, free to express their own homosexuality and desire for the opposite sex, or, like Allen, free expression of their masculine and feminine side Will the world be better? Will we all become bisexual?

Claude Esturgie, director of sex education at the University of Bordeaux in France, told us: "Become bisexual, it does not matter that social evaluation is not enough. By the psychological structure of the decision, and each person 's psychological structure is different.

In fact, everyone's subconscious will be a bit bisexual tendencies. Claude Estugi said: "It comes from our childhood two-way imitation of parents." At the beginning of the twentieth century, Freud put forward the concept of "psychological bisexuality", that is, "every gender shows some other characteristics of that gender" point of view.

He believes that we have both "male and female characteristics." These constitute the most obscure concept in the field of science. Another sex scientist, 

Philippe Brenot, made it clear that "if a heterosexual has some sexual fantasies of the same sex (and vice versa) does not mean that he will put it into practice." The balance of personality is The fantasy and repression of other things that have not been experienced. "

So, you can try to men and women in a fashionable fashion, they are in the workers next to the stadium on the street, flower shadow oblique, subtle fragrance floating across a few streets can smell the alcohol and the atmosphere there. 

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